boys are annoying

I really, really hate when a guy asks me "When we gonna kick it?" out the blue. It bothers me! Like what do you expect me to say? "Oh, um lemme check my calendar! Okay, I'm available Monday July 20th, 2009 at 9pm." NO! And it's always the niggas that you barely talk to that wanna ask you that questions. It's like, if I haven't mentioned seeing you...at all...you can safely bet that I could care less if you were even breathing. So word to the wise..if you ask me this question..and I say "idk..whenever..." with the dots and shit, it really means "I'm not committing to any particular date and I want you to go play in traffic" (that's the rough translation). Bleh!